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A Separation
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A Separation (2011)

WARNING: SPOILERS

Our sympathies keep changing in ďA SeparationĒ in a way that reminded me of life.

Initially, Simin (Leila Hatami) seems the sympathetic one, at least to western eyes, since she wants out of Iran for both herself and her daughter, while her husband Nader (Peyman Maadi) seem stubborn and awful for refusing to go. When Simin does leave, she goes, not out of the country but across town, to stay at her motherís, leaving Nader to care for their daughter, Termeh (Arina Farhadi), whoís 11 and smart, as well as his father (Ali-Asghar Shahbazi), who is old and suffering from Alzheimerís.

But we also have sympathy for Razieh (Sareh Bayat), whom Nader hires to help in his wifeís absence. Sheís pregnant; she has her own daughter, Somayeh (Kimia Hosseini), an adorable, big-eyed thing, to worry about; and now, for 300,000 rials a day (about US$26.50), she has to look after Naderís father, who wets himself, and who may wander off at any moment to get the newspaper at the newsstand down the street. Wetting himself, and not being able to change himself, is the big problem. Sheís unsure whether itís a sin for her to be this close to a man she doesnít know, but thereís a kind of Islamic hotline she can call to plead her case. She does, successfully, but itís really more than she bargained for. So she asks Nader: Could her husband, Hodjat (Shahb Hosseini), take the job instead?

Nader is willing, even grateful, but surprised when itís still Razieh who shows up the next day, and the next. Something about her husband being in jail? Something about creditors? Nader is even more surprised, and angered, when he comes home early one day to find no one at home and his father tied to the bed. Initially he thinks heís dead. Heís not, but heís bruised. And really who would do such a thing? And where is the dayís money Nader left on the dresser? And itís at this point that Razieh returns, with her daughter, and with nothing like shame or guilt on her face. Who is this woman? How could she do such a thing to his father? And still she demands her dayís pay? Why doesnít she get out of his apartment. Out! Out!

Yeah, so what if Razieh slipped when he shoved her out the door. Really? She miscarried? Thatís awful. From the shove? That doesnít seem...? She and her husband are pressing charges? For murder?

Poor Nader.

God, where the fuck is his wife during all of this?

The relativity of all of this is key. The lack of absolutes is key. The small lies that occur daily, or the big lies that occur when our backs are to the wall, or the information withheld to make oneís case better, all of these things are key. ďA SeparationĒ begins inconclusively before an unseen judge, and it endsóbeautifullyóin a kind of purgatory of inconclusiveness, and in the middle ... is anything resolved? The more both parties go to find justice, the more injustice they find. The more control they attempt to exert, the more things fall apart. ďA SeparationĒ isnít just about the separation of a man and a wife; itís about a separation from truth, from respect, and maybe from love.

—February 16, 2012

© 2012 Erik Lundegaard